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patrickstein

#! Die Hard

From: Texas, USA

Registered: 2009-01-26

Posts: 501

Re: Life can throw you a curve ball

hey man, I totally feel for you. And this is going to suck for a while. There's no way around it, but, see your friends alot, hang out at their houses, try not to be alone til you think you have some emotional feet to stand on. Here's the 2 things i always wish I had done and I'm not sure I've ever been able to. Don't talk to her after this for a long time, not like 2 weeks, but like at least 6 months, that way, your not the person that is desperately missing her (which you will be if you see her in 2 weeks, i mean your gonna be looking forward to it for 2 weeks and i promise you it's just going to let you down) and second get rid of her reminders, living is going to remind you of her enough, you don't need facebook/myspace, gtalk/aim, pictures, twitter updates, etc stabbing you in your heart kidneys every 5 minutes. And finally you need to know that you are a person. all by your lonesome. Ok I'm pretty bad at this so none of that probably helped you, but I hope you feel better.

Your advice did help, I do want to see her again and it is tearing me up inside that I can't. That is my biggest problem that I am having a hard time getting over.

patrickstein

#! Die Hard

From: Texas, USA

Registered: 2009-01-26

Posts: 501

Re: Life can throw you a curve ball

Hey to quote Austin Powers "Wait a trick, This means I'm single again. Yeah Baby"

Some little humour helps to go along way.

irksum

Member

Registered: 2009-04-21

Posts: 14

Re: Life can throw you a curve ball

hey man, just checking to see how you're doing.

patrickstein

#! Die Hard

From: Texas, USA

Registered: 2009-01-26

Posts: 501

Re: Life can throw you a curve ball

hey man, just checking to see how you're doing.

I've been better, but on the whole I am doing better. We are back to talking to each other, not in person but IM, Email, and Text messages but hey better than nothing. I do not think that we will get back together, but I can handle it I believe.